Once you have that Pyra, put it in your pant pockets. She will look at that bulge in your pants and will not be able to be distracted with pictures of cats. It will restore your male confidence.
On a serious note: It means it's a bit over her head. You lost her and she is not trying to understand the concept of "pyra" anymore. Instead, she plays it save (everybody loves cats, right?). But question back to you: how long ago did you talk to her about deep topics she enjoys? (or endured a shopping session of 3 hours with somewhat of a smile, or planned out the future and discussed the plans (women like to feel save in that way) ). You know what: Try this: 2 months (the Pyra wont be out until then) spend some quality time on her (mentally/physically). See if that works. Otoh, she could be an airhead non technical, not interested in technical stuff (because, that is what YOU are for) and be a good person you will have to accept as-is. And accept that role as the techie and you can always post on this forum if you need to discuss a matter. We will be here. And if you have a good tech idea, we will go ape-shit and share they joy.
[QUOTE="FBnil, post: 1404427, member: 60941]On a serious note: It means it's a bit over her head.[/QUOTE]
That's quite an assumption. "Not quite her cup of tea" would probably be a more fitting description.
[QUOTE="FBnil, post: 1404427, member: 60941]Instead, she plays it save (everybody loves cats, right?)[/QUOTE]
Again, an assumption based on a single, admittedly trite example. Us humans excel at making mental projections based on exceptionally specific, yet often misguided extrapolations of minutiae observations. It can really seem convincing when one is pondering it as an observer, but how much more does it say about the individual positing such assumptions than it does the individual they are questioning?
[QUOTE="FBnil, post: 1404427, member: 60941]planned out the future and discussed the plans (women like to feel save in that way)[/QUOTE]
With "women like to feel save[sic]", you're speaking about women as though they are all the same, and different from us 'guys'; perhaps like pet cats or dogs. My wife is not just a 'wife', but also my best friend, and my soul mate. The yin to my yang, or the spiritual to my, exasperating, logic.
Do you feel we need more suchlike discussions? Perhaps.
All being said, there may be some grain of truth in what you say. It's easy to take for granted what always seems to be there, just like one assumes that one breath will be followed by a second, and a third... Good friendships are a thing that should never be taken for granted. Like a single, delicate flame (not really the best example...), it often takes hard work, care, patience, acceptance and understanding to nurture and protect it. Look away for too long and it may be gone in a sigh and a wisp of smoke.
