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she's enjoying the two month's when she can say "you'll see when you get as old as I"...
 
Hope things look up for you soon, Klumpen. Be thankful you can be there, and be there!

Skirting around the awful reasons why I disappeared from these forums a while ago, anyone who follows my escapades on Twitter might know that my father was found dead last year. I wasn't there, and hadn't even really seen him or been in touch for about 5 years. His attempts to get in touch coincided with bad things going on in my life, so I never really got the chance to reconnect.

Reminds me of the most important life lessons- no matter how busy you are, or how bad things are, never pass up an opportunity to see someone you love.
 
it's difficult when a family member has medical problems (i'm going through something similar at the moment), i think all you can do is be around and be supportive. I hope the prognosis isnt too bad. 
 
Oh Klumpen, thoughts are with you. :(

I've seen people knowingly do things that lead them down a path to speed these things up... and it never gets easier.
 
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When talking to my mother, I instantly got the feeling, that something is fishy about this whole story and she obviously does not want me to visit him (tried to convince me all the time, that it would be of no use) and obviously has created an information lock at the station about him which I noticed, when speaking with the guys from the hospital.

Thanks to a nurse, I managed to get through to him per phone and arrange that I can go there tomorrow, hopefully I do not meet my mother there, have to shove her aside and try to get in alone.

She is extremely manipulative and a liar in many ways (typical for Scorpio, as I've heard), so I have to try to get through her net without letting him notice, because stress would be deadly now...

Naturally I got some problems in my timetable now, because of work and a visit I get from thursday to sunday.
 
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@kasp: awww noo, do you not celebrate your anniversaries?


*gets out the spoon* now then, are you all absolutely suuuure we shouldn't post nice things around valentines day? dont let the spoon or the army of care bears blocking the exit to this thread, affect your decisions, lololol :D
Ha no idea it's not really that big of a deal for me.  If she wants to go out somewhere she can organize it, I think usually we just get some takeout and eat at home. :p
 
When talking to my mother, I instantly got the feeling, that something is fishy about this whole story and she obviously does not want me to visit him (tried to convince me all the time, that it would be of no use) and obviously has created an information lock at the station about him which I noticed, when speaking with the guys from the hospital.

Thanks to a nurse, I managed to get through to him per phone and arrange that I can go there tomorrow, hopefully I do not meet my mother there, have to shove her aside and try to get in alone.

She is extremely manipulative and a liar in many ways (typical for Scorpio, as I've heard), so I have to try to get through her net without letting him notice, because stress would be deadly now...

Naturally I got some problems in my timetable now, because of work and a visit I get from thursday to sunday.
I hope everything works out for you buddy.


As for your toxic mother just rise above it, no point arguing with people like that just do your thing and ignore them.
 
Easier said than done if not everyone ignores them. And especially his dad is unlikely to not listen to his wife (assuming they are still together).


Hope your Dad's not in too bad a way, Klumpen, and hope your Mum doesn't cause too much of a ruckus.
 
3rd night i'm still up at approx 5am

:wacko: , guessing it's because i'm nervous about my trip to the dentists on Mon. Wish my brain would be straightforward about things and just say that it was nervous rather than this i'm not going to let you sleep hahaha thing, sorry about lack of coherency need sleep zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Least it'll be over soon + will get anaesthetic which is always fun. ^_^

Edit: Will buy treat for self later today because it may help + I just fancy one + thank you spellcheck for making my post semi readable. :)

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Burn Baby Burn + Troff Fries = yum. :wub: Mind you all of it = yum.


Edit 2: Going to try and pass out now, see you all this evening. -_-


TL:DR no can zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
 
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Back in the land of the living, going out to get food an' stuff :) . Just mentioning so that no one worries about me. ;)
 
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Get a dog. My sleep cycles had drifted a bit, but I'm currently looking after a dog, and it jumping up at your sleeping face to get taken out for their morning pee at 8:30am always gets you out of bed, to save your carpets at least. Combine that with 5am nighttimes two nights in a row and you'll be able to sleep at the drop of a hat.
 
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