Again no, the point was to tell Exo to ease up, hes offended too easily, and you seeminlgy have a similar problem,
Again, yes. You told him to lighten up within the context of pointing out flaws in Grench's "dream". Whether it was your intention or not, by telling Exophase to lighten up and not Grench you implied that Grench's optimistic dream was more important than Exophase being correct. That is, as he said, unfair and irrational.
almost starting to think both of you are the same person.
More than one person is allowed to correct someone when they are dangerously wrong. Not just kind of maybe optimistically wrong, I mean flat out not supported in anyway within the confines of the present reality wrong.
If someone has an idea that hasn't been disproven, by all means they can go ahead and dream their dream. If the dream is proven false and they continue to proclaim it as if it were still fact despite the evidence, that is when I have a problem.