Depends entirely on who you associate with, I suspect.
For obvious statistical reasons, the general public are shallow, uninspired and boring. Their regard is not worth pursuing.
However, if you can find a group who's views and values you share, then their opinions will tend to be both supportive and informative.
How else can you tell the difference between confidence in your own strengths, and being an arrogant pest? (or, for that matter, learn to be a better person?)
