It's about waifuism. Guys prefering imagined anime girlfriends to real women.
Ohhhh! *Facepalm* .... That should have been obvious to me.
On a related note... Having children creates karma. What's even scarier is that you are tied into whatever karma they create too... And so it goes, generation by generation...
In other words... You like living in this reality? Have some kids... You will be here a while.
You are tired of this reality / feel you don't really belong here - have this sense your true home is somewhere 'other'. You are frustrated at having to function by the parameters that bind this world... Knowing that you would function far better (more truely) under different conditions... Even if you aren't fully aware of what those other conditions would be...
Then don't have kids... Infact, minimize your relationships to those who support the true you, and avoid those who demand that you exist in order to validate *them*, or the reality they exist in.
Make the focus of your life the clearing of any karma that binds you to this world, and invest yourself in building a relationship with the home that lives in your heart.
Do this with your whole heart, and you will not be long for this reality... It will slip away, day by day, and the path home will become ever clearer. Your true friends and family will become ever more real to you, while the beings bound by this reality will grow more and more distant.
*HOORAY!!!* YOU WILL SOON BE HOME AGAIN!
If returning home is more important to you than anything this reality can offer you, then know that in Truth - you are already home...
It is simply a matter of taking one little step at a time, and holding home in your heart. Your feet will know the way, if your heart is True... And never mind never mind... what seems to stand against the truth in you.
Your way home is not a war of conquest...of fighting for what's right... But of letting go, and letting be.
Let be, and you shall be.
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