I don't disagree with your points but it easily works both ways. Consider in counter to each of what you said:
- As a male you're expected to take 100% of the initiative in asking women out and showing interest (and things like proposing for marriage), more of the pressure of rejection lies on males and you can be prepared to be called a creep or a loser and get laughed at if women don't like you. This is exemplified on dating sites.
- When you shout at someone because they're irritating, you're typified as an aggressive and competitive pig who lacks the delicate patience of a female
- When you say that you like typically feminine things (I could rattle a long list here) prepare to be ostracized or called gay
- As an aside to the "fake geek" thing, women are much less likely to be made fun of for being geeks or nerds, males often find that attractive, the biggest reason why the "fake geek" backlash goes around is precisely because women wear it as a badge of honor and receive positive attention over it, while men are more likely to receive it as an insult
- When you try to bring up any instances of misandry in society you get looks like you're crazy, because everyone knows only misogyny exists (as an interesting point, guess which of these two words my web browser didn't recognize)
- If a woman keeps talking in irritation, no one is going to for a second suspect them of being a violent rapist
Here's some extra stuff that doesn't really parallel your points:
- If a man reports a woman for domestic violence it's happened that HE goes to jail because the police doesn't believe his story and thinks he's the perpetrator instead
- Women have full rights to do whatever they want with the child, but if the child is born the man must pay child support no matter what
- Men are more subject to involuntary military conscription
I think that gender issues are a real problem but you really have to look at it from a greater perspective and see how it impacts all people, not just about providing more privilege to women.
