Dunny said:
Monk said:
I see TheRain bouncing back in a perfect example of how these forums (forums everywhere) should work - instead of getting his back up at you (as I may have looked like I was doing) he's, well, just getting along. Everyone looks at everything said and moves towards an understanding, rather than battle lines
It's quite a shame these forums really
don't work like that - when even the mods themselves dish out warnings to folks because the mod himself has gotten the wrong end of the stick :-(
D.
Agreed, the forums don't work that way anything like as often as I'd like
Sphinxter said:
I'm sorry but it's completely inane and totally naive to believe you can actually compete out there by over estimating everything.
inane:asinine, devoid of intelligence, •Lacking sense or meaning; silly, fatuous, vacuous, or complacently and unconsciously foolish, silly, empty and pointless
I don't know about overestimating "everything" - that seems a bit extreme, and if the estimate turns out to have NOT been too long, as events cause "unexpected" delays, then it wasn't an overestimate, was it? But this would seem to be one of those occasions, I think, where the forum isn't working in the idealistic manner I'd prefer (but don't expect to happen constantly, or even very often, sadly).
Personally, I don't think that lying to your customers and working in a totally paranoid and constantly immoral atmosphere for ones whole life is necessarily unavoidable. I don't say it's easy to work to "best principles" - but then, the easy path has rarely been the better one. Lots of books teach that. The majority of customers I've seen benefit from such an approach have been very happy customers, and a source of advertising for further business.
The very comments about how this forum work serve as another example of "nice vs nasty". Agreed, much - too much - of the forum is back-biting insulting nastiness, but there are also excellent examples of people coming together, clashing, and working out that they have more in common than they have in conflict (and even some people just getting along, from time to time). There is no "always done this way" IMHO, we're too varied a species for that. There's good, and bad, everywhere you look.