I have and would work before I'll accept welfare.
It's called Pride. I'm a man and I will take care of my family, I WILL NOT rely on anyone or any government to take care of me and my family.
Unless someone is handicapped in some way, or has extenuating circumstances, they should feel the same. Seems like a lot of people don't feel this way anymore.
A lot of people have had their Pride and Self-Esteem and everything else sucked out of them by the deathtrap that is Corporate America.
Again, take me for example. I was on diasability for a couple years when I first moved to PA.
First, a company lied to me about my salary, and for the first time in my life I quit without another job lined up...longer story, I won't go into details. But they promised a certain wage and then failed to deliver on their promise.
THEN...Hurricane Katrina.
I was freaking ruined.
I had lost just about everything I had in the world.
I was forced to move back home to PA to Mommy...a failure at life at age 34.
Well, I can tell you from experience, buddy...this takes a severe toll on your pride. When you lose your independence, your livelihood, your entire sense of self-worth...through circumstances not of your own making...let me tell you it does a number on you.
I was a basket case so bad I could barely get dressed in the morning anymore. I didn't give a damn about me, or anyone or anything else, either.
Fortunately for me...I had pepole, like my mom...who believed in me when I didn't even believe in me.
They were patient with me, and they helped me to build myself back up.
without their help I would have been dead, in prison, or living in a cardboard box somewhere.
Without them...I never would have been able to grab the opportunity when it came my way.
Many people do not have the support system I was fortunate enough to have.
Why must you judge people as bums...just because they got crushed by the hammer of life?
Life in america is NIOT easy. 80 percent of us stand one or two paychecks from bankruptcy, at the mercy of our employers and creditors...and oh so easy to utterly destroy and crush.
It doesn't have to be this way and it shouldn't be this way.
But the greedy and wealthy among us make sure it stays that way, because it makes us schmucks easier to control.
Freedom, my ass.
Freedom to starve, maybe.
Any person who is dependent upon another person for their survival...is, by definition, not free.