The thing I get a little cranky about is all the promises Adobe made about ARM support (albeit they never said it would be free and generic).
If I was an N900 owner I'd be more bummed about not having proper Flash 10.1, which I believe was promised.
With the Pandora, none of us expected it, but we hoped. You'd think it would be in Adobe's interest to continue the propagation of flash. As for the licensing I was hoping TI could just do it, rather than the device manufacturer, but I'm sure that's not popular with TI.