Sure, you can't proof anything
Ok, you're getting way too meta for this. If you're going to claim the lying-God theory then we literally have absolutely nothing to base anything on and we cannot go anywhere.
That's not the point in practical debates.
I agree, that's why I'm sticking with what is practical: you can prove positives, you can't prove negatives. You can prove something will cause damage, but you can't prove something cannot cause damage: best you can do is demonstrate within reasonable assumptions that we should have no reason to fear damage.
To that end, the argument still stands: billions of devices over the last several decades have had haptic feedback of some form in them and there isn't some critically massive number of breakages going on, this should be sufficient evidence that such vibrations are not a cause for concern. Can I prove that vibrations cannot cause damage? No, that is impossible. Can I demonstrate that it doesn't seem like it should be a problem? Absolutely.
If you deny this then it is on you as the person proposing the issue to prove what you are saying is true. If you can't accept decades of use and billions of devices as evidence then you'll need to back up your disbelieve with something more concrete then "what ifs".