@Djoga'Ro : Thanks for reading it and keeping the discussion going.
The point I was trying to make was: From a fixed reference point things look different.
to their beliefs' puppets
In a sense, the religious construct around the core believe is making the converted move as puppets. And most have a directive to go out and convert more (I find the virus analogy apt). (separate religion from the believe) For example:
You are homeless. The Hare Krishna take you in. You must obey their rituals (no meat, shave, dress) and go out and try to convert others. Suddenly you realize you are in a hierarchically militarized prison with open doors.
You are rich. The mormons take you in, are nice people and bit by bit, they tell you things. Then ask for your bible so they can read it. They actually throw it away, and give you one of their own. By the time you realize, you think God f*cks his zillion wifes all day to make souls. And you lose 10% of your income each month. They come to your door asking why you do not attend anymore, and pester you for their lost income. You need to change neighborhoods as their connections make your life impossible.
You are very poor. You meet somebody that does voodoo. It works! (nocebo effect, the opposite of the placebo effect). You start believing you can actually control demons and dive into dark arts. Then you realize you lost an insane amount of money for buying mashed roots and other "special ingredients".
You go to a tibetian monk for wisdom and spiritual guidance. You like the help, it helps your sanity in this insane world. You start learning and discover a new world. But ultimately, you learn that you need to accept that we are puppets of demon's whims. No good news at all, it leaves you empty from the inside, and rot from the outside.
You are grieving. Go to a catholic church to get a good talk. They take you in. Before you know it, you are working full time (for free) to do the administration and help out to keep the structure up. They have their mass in a graveyard (there are graves in the catacombs of every catholic church), and the sermons are "empty", there is no critical thinking for the non thinking. No deep analysis, no questioning. An archbishop that raises his voice against paedophilia gets removed... Rome's strong hand at work.
In all these examples (some personal, some from very close), the structure around the doctrine is build like a honeypot to capture and not release (of course, you can, but mentally strong people clash immediately (there is your antivirus), and are not the "target"). In many, the doctrine is perverse and not liberating. In some it is twisted and made foul.
Example: You have heard of the "good news", and that it is freaking awesome (that Christ died for your sins)... but... they do not tell you WHY this is awesome, in what context this is a "good thing" ™ and why YOU should care... or even why he had to die in the first place, being God and all..
On the other hand... I suspect strongly that this world is a simulation, where things that are not perceived are not rendered until they are perceived (uncertainty principle) even if this means that this needs to know and go back into the past to define itself (real double slit experiment). And the pixels/voxels of our world are planck scaled, but not smaller. And there are things that do not compute, as it were. Our physics is a mess, with General Relativity contradicting Quantum Mechanics, and not even being considered in Standard Physics (read, for example, "Electrical Universe"). The fact that mathematics predicts stuff 90
percent degrees rotated to our reality (i, as in square root -1). The fact that just to "be here", requires miracle upon miracle, upon miracle that science does not account for: Universal constants "just right", materia properties "just right", cell creation (membrane), cell-within-cell (mitochondria), from unicelullar to pluricellular organisms, cell specialization (stemcell to other), organ creation (specialization), stable symbiotic relations between organisms (that can not live without eachother), etc.
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