mali said:
I know you and I know that you are not biased or unfair, thus I don't critizise you at all
Thanks mate. That means more than you may know
Not "getting too involved" is probably a good choice. Having too many people mix it up in an argument can, sometimes, lead to an increase in heat rather than calming things down. Better not to be between a rock and a hard place! Thanks too for your attempts to calm things down. I know that, barring my last post, I've been largely (willfully) ignoring the attempts, but that doesn't mean your intention isn't recognised and appreciated. It is.
mali said:
I can understand the difficult situation he is in right now.
If you knew the situation on the German boards, you'd know a bit better what I mean. He gets some flak there too and the German members can be pretty unfair, while the Mods fight each other because some of them are plain stupid.
That's shitty
a mod team should be there to, well, moderate. Not in any way to make things worse. IMHO.
mali said:
I've read so much crap here in the last 1.5 years, I could fill a funny book with it
You know, now I have an image of the film of the stage play of the outragous comedy written by our newest comic novellists - Craigix and Mali!
You really should NOT do that to someone when they are eating rice. It's not pretty
Sugar_Kane said:
I find myself writing up my response, then reading it, editing it, reading it again until it's perfect, and then most of the time I delete it entirely or change it so that the nasty tone has gone. I don't mean to patronize you with my armchair observations, but many times I do find that writing out a full response and deleting it does provide me with a good release. Anyway, most of the time I'm just arseing around and trying to be amusing (degrees of success ranging between -1 to 3.6 on the Amus-o-meter), so my advice may seem like the jester offering to polish the king's sceptre (ooo matron!).
I know exactly what you mean - although more of my posts make it than do not, and I don't claim to polish enough (my typos will back me up there), posts in more dangerous threads tend to get more attention and re-writing. Sometimes I may write a post 3 or 4 times, and even then after I posted one recently (a "Pro" OpenPandora one, actually, if you can imagine such a thing!) I decide the chances of it improving things rather than making them worse are not good, so I edit it down to "I brushed my teeth today" or "Meh" or some such useless statement. Much goes unsaid, usually to avoid hurt feelings/increased irritation.
EvilDragon said:
Monk said:
You've taken some questions/posts which are uncomfortable to you, and have responded by making me out to be a vindictive, biased, stalker in this thread. That is WAY uncool.
Sorry - but I don't agree here. There's nothing uncomfortable with the battery life question for me.
then why respond so badly to it? If I ask Creature "why are your eye hazel, that's a stupid colour!" then even though I am being more offensive than I have to you, Crreature will take no offense if his eyes are brown. Or blue. Or green. He may well take no offence if they are hazel - because it's just a colour. Why have you taken time out to bring up the battery question as being offensive if you have not taken it uncomfortably?
Are you now saying that I haven't hit any "sore spot" or "thin skin" or button, but that you've attacked me just BECAUSE YOU CAN?
EvilDragon said:
But I'm too tired to discuss anything anymore. Sorry.
I really should leave the boards for a while, they don't do me any good.
Ah - hit and run eh? Great.
kuru said:
Which of us? I could certainly do without aggro from ED (or indeed anyone). It sounds like he could do without stirring up more aggro too, based on Mali's comments about the German boards.
mali said:
Sorry mate - I tried, honest I did! But I've had enough. I dislike unfounded insults, and don't intend to sit back and just take them.