or giving them inspiration (a game or movie limits that a lot), that gaming is on a very low priority on an "what I want my kid to do" list.
I agree with the vast majority of the points raised in your posts above, but the above quote is pretty much at odds with my personal experience as a young gamer & parent of a young gamer.
The game that really makes me question this is Minecraft. My daughter along with millions of other children finds Minecraft truly inspirational. For example, whenever we walk anywhere together we tell each other made up stories, ever since she started playing Minecraft, about a year ago, every story she tells me has been based upon the 'mythology' which she has attached to her minecraft worlds. Can't wait to hear the next exciting installment of the misadventures of Steve, Katania & Mr Creeps.
It's sometimes hard as a parent to enforce time limits with Minecraft as what she's doing in her worlds is undoubtedly creative, inspirational, intellectually stimulating and tremendous fun. It's hard to say no when you hear 'Oh just another 10 minutes Dad, I've nearly finished my redstone powered railway, working farm, jungle temple, etc.